El latido de tu corazon

fue lo primero que escuche

mucho antes de nacer

.

.

tu sorisa tu cara

fue lo primero

que vi al abrir mis ojos a este mundo

.

.

mis primeros pasos di hacia ti

mis primeras palabras las escuchaste tu

has estado presente en los momentos

mas importantes de mi vida.

tus palabras abrieron mi mente

y mi corazon a las posibilidades

infinitas que me ha dado Dios

.

.

gracias te doy.madre mia,

por tu ejemplo,por tu esmero,

y por estar siempre a mi lado

y muy dentro de mi corazon

译：在我出生之前　　最早听到的声音　　是你的心跳

当我第一次向这个世界睁开眼睛　　见到的　　是你的微笑，你的面容

我的第一步是走向你，我的第一句话是你听见．在我生命中最重要的时刻　　你一直在场

你的话语使我的思想和心灵　　无限可能的开放　　正如上帝所赐

谢谢你　　我的妈妈　　谢谢你的榜样　　你的细心

谢谢你陪伴　　在我身旁　　在我的内心深处！

爱怕什么

I’m happy these days, for I have been thinking many pleasant things. Well you may don’t know that when was a child, I was god’s darling. So this is the reason why I choose Christina for my name which is sacred and noble. My photograph of one hundred days was shown to people by photo studio and from then on, I was known by a lot of people. Everyone knows that babies are all similar but I was a exception. From my first day of coming this new world, I was the beauty which caused “cities and kingdoms to fall” which was praised by everyone knew me. Nowadays, I feel greatly honoured that heaven bestows favour on me and I hope you can’t suppose that I am blowing my own trumpet. I just state my situation objectively. Moreover, I have a beloved parents who attribute their whole energies to me. Once was an undergraduate, I was also stubborn and didn’t like to listen to others’ suggestion that caused many mistakes. Although things had happened, my parents had been trying to help me all the time. Their effort acquired reward at last that I survived university life’s most unfortunate term from 2004 to 2006 under their education. Till now I also appreciate them a lot. Just their high responsibility to me that saves me. So here I only want to say one word that “ Dad and mom, as your daughter, I quarrel with you many times and I am regret deeply. I appreciate your help and am bound to be a girl regarded worthy-proud by you in the near future.”

Well, you may don’t know what I want to say on earth. In virtually, I only want to write something without any purpose. Departing from university is a maturity in itself and I will become more and more mature in work. While what do I think of maturity? It’s an abstract concept and self-confidence and modestness are just two aspects of maturity. But when needing self-confidence, we should remain confident and so does modestness. For example, one’s beautiful appearance can make him superior to others, set up confidence for himself and he should take it as granted and keep self-confidence. But when you are criticized by others for your false, you should be modest and accept positive opinion. I consider that I can’t use such a few simple sentences to state maturity accurately and you may need time to consider it carelly time and time again. Just as I said in my previous blog that savvy is the most crucial in the course of maturity.

I made a mistake in my job as a result of my carelessness the day before yesterday, so my boss gave me a serious and earnest criticism which let me move deeply. I sincerely thank his guide for my work and this feeling had never touched me before. Since having been done assignment well, I never thought I could do task badly. Maybe I had much confidence in myself that led to my conceit. While talking about my work, I realized clearly his having expended much care and thought on me. Although he was angry a lot and spoke in a very stern voice, I knew each word he said was beneficial to me. That scene was really beyond my description and I can assure that any girl except me is bound to cry facing his action. I knew my own problem through communion with him and could understand his high criterion and increasing hope to all of us. Just his strong responsibility to profession caused me to treat him with increased respect and admire him greatly. After his guidance, it occured to me that I should take him as my example, and for a long time I have been holding a view that successful career doesn’t only belong to men but remain with women who are equal to male. Moreover this is also the reason why I appreciate his suggestion to me that once upon a time nobody criticised me to my face and I didn’t know my shortcoming until that day. Just think carefully, indeed I didn’t deal with that matter well but when he talked with me, I said nothing, for I didn’t want to seek pretext in the face of truth to explain something for my mistake. Truth is truth and so is fause. Now that problem has already happened the only way to solve it I think is to do it better next time rather than complaining anyhing. I consider that any word is lifeless in front of reality and I only believe behavior. This is my life standard.

I visited Yaohua High School yesterday. From this experience, I recognized that most students like to travel in the following foreign countries, such as England, America, Canada, Germany, Japan and Singapore and among them, England and Japan are the most welcomed. I’m thinking the reason why students have priority cater for these two countries. For my own part, I like England most, not only its language circumstance, human flavour, advanced education and technology, and unique culture with classicism character but also its climate, architecture, civilization and manner attract me deeply. As for Japan, I have no idea about the reason, for I don’t much like this small country maybe the reason is that its travel charge is low relatively. RMB ￥8800/per person in a week is OK . I also consider that their parents are all great. In order to send their children to accept advanced education in developed countries, they almost contribute their whole to these children in order that these students can live better than them. I can also become a mother in the near future when I will regard them as my model and try my best to let my child live better than me, better than these students. This is my obligatory duty and also my responsibility.

I accompanied my father to take part in a formal invitation on April 23. The host was my father’s classmate in middle school and the reason for her lavish hospitality was that she had a favour to ask of my father to find a decent job for her son. Well, the specialty of her son was similar with that of my father, so my father could give him a hand. When having supper, another gentleman, a senior engineer, talked about her son with us together. Although I didn’t know much about architecture, I was fond of the pattern to talk of something helpful to me with experienced people and could learn much beneficial experience from these seniors. From their words, I might acquire precious suggestions and found a shortcut to succeed. Everyone knew that recent intellectual’s supply exceeded demand, so capability and background are crucial to youth besides academic credentials. Frank speaking, we could regard background as relations and from a certain degree, relations’ power was beyoud imagination and description. As a result, in the first place, I think I must perfect myself in order to lay a solid basis for triumph depending on myself but not others, although my father had a high status. While this was also the correct way to require others for me, but I must do something well before requesting other people. In the next place, for my concerned person, I should give a strict demand to him as a result of my obligatory duty. The reason why I did it like this was because I hope he was excellent. Nowadays, responsible people were too scarce to find honest and upright gentlemen. The last but not the least, I must independent and take good care of my parents in order to let them set their minds at rest and live a happy remaining years.

Well, the most excited time had approached on April 24. My elder brother married a lovely and pretty young girl and they were fortunate couple. I met many familiar people on his wedding, such as Professor Wu, Director Su of International School of Tianjin University of Commerce. I have the greatest esteem for Professor Wu who was my teacher in my university, also was my relative and gave me deep impression. He was upright, easy-going and willing to help others. For such a respectable professor, it’s hardly found in recent society. When a university student, I received much help from him. At the same time, I also took some photographs with this couple and other relatives. Everyone knew an easy truth that bride should be the apple of guests’ eyes, but others shown much attention to my appearance on my brother’s wedding. Here I didn’t want to compliment myself but I really couldn’t understand the phenomenon that why I always attracted others on many occasions. Indeed I took it as an honour and I thought this was my nature gift which didn’t belong to others. I have been paying plenty of attention to my image in public all the time. In that circumstance, I also knew some new friends who are kindhearted, beautiful, handsome and self-possessed. Haha, youth always had a lot of interested subjects.

Well, it’s about to 0:30 and I will go to work tomorrow morning. So stop writing here today. Maybe I will transmit a few photographs in one or two days to share with my beloved friends.

That’s all. Thank you for your careful attention!

     对生活要充满激情，其他的都会因此而得到。 

　　钱很重要，努力赚钱，有了钱你可以得到很多东西，包括女人的身体。 

　　如果没钱，就要学会得到很多女人的心。 

　　如果钱和心都无法得到，那只能说明你无能。 

　　身体最重要，无论什么都不应该用损害健康去获得。 

　　要学会微笑，对每一个人。 

　　让周围的人因为有你的存在而感到快乐。 

　　善待家人，孝顺父母。 

　　学会装傻，学会漠视，学会忍耐。 

　　不要因为寂寞而去寻求安慰，男人要会享受寂寞。 

　　谈太多恋爱会让人倦怠，要适当控制。 

　　见一个爱一个的男人，他和他的爱都会跟着贬值。 

　　事业远比爱情重要。如果说事业都不能永恒，那么爱情只能是昙花一现。 

　　“我爱你”三个字是关键时刻用来堵住所有废话用的，平时还是多用行动表现吧。 

　　比那三个字更好的办法是适时的拥抱和接吻。女人期待被男人强吻，前提是她喜欢你。 

　　不要和爱慕虚荣的女人在一起，她迟早会离开你。看她爱不爱虚荣，只需要打扮的很邋遢的和她走在一起，或者送她一件很普通的礼物，然后留意她的表情。 

　　如果一个女人认为别人就应该对她好，那趁早离开她，不懂感恩的人也不懂得珍惜。 

　　一夜情和嫖娼，可以选择一样，不过一定要慎重选择对象。 

　　不要招惹玩不起游戏的人，不管男人还是女人。 

　　适时的送花和小礼物给女人，让她们开心其实很简单。 

　　不要欺骗善良的女人，这样的女人数量很少。 

　　傻女孩很多，聪明的也不少，不要盲目自信。 

　　如果不打算骗女人一生一世，那就不要骗她。如果是善意的谎言，要设法让她明白你的良苦用心。 

　　婚姻应该由自己主动选择，一个理解你的女人是最优的选择。 

　　娶一个你不爱的女人之前，要确信和保证自己能一生对她很好。 

　　背叛了女人，就要设法补偿，补偿最好的方法是钱，连钱也不要的女人就要小心了。 

　　分手最好设法让对方先提出来。 

　　世界上没有永远，珍惜现在才能把握未来。 

　　对女人一定要坦诚，就算当流氓也要当坦坦荡荡的流氓。 

　　没有一个女人，能比你的母亲更爱你。 

　　不要吃回头草，伤你第一次的人还会有第二次，破镜重圆的几率仅仅是在电视上比较高。 

　　能和前女友做朋友，只有两种可能，一是你们当初都只是玩玩而已，没付出彼此最真的感情。或者：必定有个人是在默默的付出无怨无悔。 

　　要有至少一个了解你的女人，作为你的密友。要有至少一个了解你的男人，能没事陪你喝酒。 

　　在女人面前，永远不要解释什么，直接认错不会有坏处。 

　　第一辆车应该是二手的，先开好了再说。 

　　一定要有一所用自己钱买的房子。 

　　30岁之前，搞垮几个公司是好事，失败的经验比成功更能让男人心智成熟。 

　　再大的打击都会过去，只要你还活着就永远都有机会，乐观的态度是力量的源泉。 

　　一定要从摔倒的地方爬起来。 

　　如果没有才华，就要有气魄，没有好的外貌，就要学会有品味。 

　　会工作也要会休闲，有时候适当的不修边幅会让你更性感。 

　　能哄人是出色的本事，这一点都不丢人。哄上司，哄同事，哄老人，哄女人，哄孩子。如果以上你通通都能哄到，那么恭喜你，你的人生一定值得你炫耀。 

　　先有实力，才有魅力。让人愿意跟随你，是你的魅力所在。 

　　要看起来像个君子，即使你不是。 

　　要有温和的脾气和好斗的性格。 

　　不要跟一般人一般见识，不要随便骂脏话。 

　　侮辱一个人最好的方式就是不予理睬。 

　　尊重任何服务行业的人，他们和你的生活息息相关。 

　　有自己的立场和观点，不一定要抢着标明。学会沉默，有些话不必说出来。 

　　自然的发型最好，不要整天用发胶和定型水。服装整洁就好，不必过于光鲜。皮鞋干净就好，不要擦的油光瓦亮。 

　　厨艺高超，但不轻易下厨。厨艺不佳就要刀工精湛。 

　　知道那里有好的餐馆，女人会记得带她吃到好东西的男人。 

　　可以抽烟喝酒，但是不要上瘾。对身体不好的任何爱好，都应该浅尝辄止。 

　　至少得爱一种体育运动，喜欢并参与进去。

it's the way she fills my senses
it's the perfume that she wears
i feel i'm losing my defences
to the colour of her hair

and every little piece of her is right
just thinking about her
takes me through the night


every time we meet
the picture is complete
every time we touch
the feeling is too much
she's all i ever need
to fall in love again
i knew it from the very start'

she's the puzzle of my heart

it's the way she's always smiling
that makes me think she never cries
i feel i'm losing my defences
to the colour of her eyes

and every little piece of her is right

everytime we meet

like a miracle she's meant to be
she became the light inside of me
and i can feel her like a memory
from long ago

An empty street, an empty house,
A hole inside my heart,
I'm all alone, the rooms are getting smaller,
I wonder how, I wonder why,
I wonder where they are,
The days we had, The songs we sang together, Oh yeah. 
And oh my love, I'm holding on forever,
Reaching for a love thats seems so far. 
 
So i say a little prayer, 
Hope my dreams will take me there,
Where the skies are blue,
To see you once again my love,
Over seas from coast to coast,
Find the place I love the most,
Where the fields are green,
I see you once again,
My love.

I try to read, I go to work
I'm laughing with my friends,
But I cannot stop to keep myself from thinking, oh no,
I wonder how, I wonder why,
I wonder where they are,
The days we had,
The songs we sang together, Oh yeah.

And oh my love, I'm holding on forever,
Reaching for a love thats seems so far.

So I say a little prayer, 
Hope my dreams will take me there,
Where the skies are blue,
To see you once again my love,
Over seas from coast to coast,
Find the place I love the most,
Where the fields are green,
I see you once again

To hold you in my arms,
To promise you my love,
To tell you from afar,
What I'm thinking of.

Reaching for a love that seems so far.

So i say a little prayer, 
hope my dreams will take me there,
Where the skies are blue,
To see you once again my love,
Over seas from coast to coast,
Find the place I love the most,
Where the fields are green,
I see you once again,
My love. 

 

这些天，给我感触最多的，就是女人想要找一个好男人怎么那么难？

前些日子，一个女友给我打电话，说她最近见的那些男人让她越来越失望，没见几次面就动手动脚，根本不是真心谈朋友。女友一直想成立个家庭，找个可靠的男人。这本是一个再正常不过的要求，可是现实却成了一道如此令人头疼的方程式，左碰右碰也找不到那个最终的解。

另一个女友的情况是，她一个人带着五岁大的孩子生活，老公常年在外面飘着，只有过年才回家一趟，呆上几天，年一过马上又投身到外面的世界当中。朋友们都为她抱不平，这样的男人还留恋什么？！她说想给孩子一个完整的家、，想让孩子有个亲爸爸。

那天在网上看到一个帖子，一个女孩子写道：你可以确定在一个人的怀里，却不能确定在不在他心里。这样的话语流露出一个女子对不专情的男子的哀怨。其实判定一个男人心里是否有你并不难，那就是跟他在一起的时候是否感到踏实，如果是，那他就是你的真命天子，如果不是，赶紧弃他而去吧。与其和这样的男人纠缠不清，还不如把那些时间用来修身养性。想要别人在乎你，前提是你要先在乎自己。

也许感情的确是妙不可言的，只有当你真正失去的时候才懂得应该倍加珍惜。然而时间不能倒转，有些失去的东西是永远也追不回来了。但是世界上的很多事情是靠自己去把握和争取的，我还是相信古人说的人定胜天的思想，也许你会觉得我的想法很愚蠢，但是它绝对是积极的，就像李海亮说的那样，争取一切可能的机会实现自己的目标和理想，决不做让自己后悔的事情，即使有的事情结果不如自己所愿，只要坚定目标仍然可以继续努力去实现的。人面对任何事情应该保持一颗善良的心，一定要对得起自己更要对得起对方。俗话说得好，“人在做，天在看”，仔细想想，这话说得很有道理，经历了太多的事让我明白，你对生活怎样，生活就会还你怎样的颜色。二十多岁了，思想早应该成熟了。我们都说，做事情要三思而后行。Absolutely Right. 我是个做事情很有原则的人，一切都要以大局为重，更要为长远考虑。人在任何时候都不能做过头的事情，也决不能做让人瞧不起的事情。

最后，让我用莎士比亚的一句经典的名言来结束我的日志吧，The course of true love never did run smooth.